{"id":64315,"date":"2025-04-21T11:30:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-21T06:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/idronline.org\/?post_type=article&#038;p=64315"},"modified":"2025-04-21T12:18:09","modified_gmt":"2025-04-21T06:48:09","slug":"what-my-middle-class-family-thinks-of-my-social-sector-job","status":"publish","type":"article","link":"https:\/\/idronline.org\/kn-in\/article\/humour\/what-my-middle-class-family-thinks-of-my-social-sector-job\/","title":{"rendered":"What my middle class family thinks of my social sector job"},"content":{"rendered":"<?xml encoding=\"utf-8\" ?><p>1. When I first told my parents that I&ndash;the sole person in the entire extended family with a master&rsquo;s degree&ndash;wanted to switch from my corporate job to the social sector.&nbsp;<br><br>My mom:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-1-1-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-1-1.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-1-1.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-1-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><br>My dad:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-2-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-2.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-2.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-2.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><\/p><p>2. After multiple lectures about how I&rsquo;m wasting my convent school education, and about how I have no appreciation for the fact that I didn&rsquo;t have to study under a street lamp like them, they ask: &ldquo;How much are you going to earn?&rdquo;&nbsp;<br><br>Their reaction when I tell them:<\/p><div class=\"idron-article-in-content\" style=\"margin-bottom: 15px;\" id=\"idron-2122703575\"><a href=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/what-is-idr-answers\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"What is IDR Answers Page Banner\"><img src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1.png\" alt=\"What is IDR Answers Page Banner\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1.png 1250w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-300x60.png 300w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-1024x205.png 1024w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-150x30.png 150w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-768x154.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" width=\"1250\" height=\"250\"   \/><\/a><\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-3-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-3.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-3.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-3.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><\/p><p>3. When I nervously tell my brother that I might not have health insurance for the foreseeable future.&nbsp;<br><br>My brother, who is secretly happy that he is now the favourite child:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Untitled-design-2-1-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Untitled-design-2-1.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Untitled-design-2-1.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Untitled-design-2-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><\/p><p>4. When I tell them I&rsquo;m learning about grassroots issues in India that never make it to the mainstream media.&nbsp;<br><br>My dad who quickly changes the topic to a cousin who is doing an inter-religion wedding:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-5-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-5.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-5.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-5.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><\/p><p>5. When social sector jargon starts creeping into my everyday conversations&mdash;like the time I told them that reducing our energy consumption would help our carbon footprint.&nbsp;<br><br>My mom who constantly reminds me to switch off the fans:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-6-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-6.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-6.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-6.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><\/p><p>6. When they finally start feeling comfortable with my job and try to explain it at family meet-ups. But every attempt backfires, and they come home with more questions about what I actually do.&nbsp;<br><br>My dad who just wanted a good night out:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><picture><source media=\"(max-width: 1366px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-7-768x510.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 1540px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-7.webp\"><source media=\"(max-width: 2000px)\" srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-7.webp\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/Humour-7.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"680\"><\/source><\/source><\/source><\/picture><\/figure><p><\/p><p>7. When I tell them about the kind of impact our stories create. They start proudly sharing them in their Facebook groups&mdash;until it sparks a fight between mom and dad.&nbsp;<br><br><em>&ldquo;Meri beti mere upar gayi hai, tere upar nahi.&rdquo;<\/em>&nbsp;<br>(She takes after me, not you.)<\/p><div class=\"idron-content\" id=\"idron-2009637594\"><a href=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/donate\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"donate banner\"><img src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1.jpg\" alt=\"donate banner\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-300x60.jpg 300w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-1024x205.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-150x30.jpg 150w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-768x154.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" 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