{"id":1914,"date":"2020-07-27T11:30:21","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T11:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/idronline.org\/2020\/12\/23\/indianmatchmaking-the-nonprofit-edition\/"},"modified":"2025-11-10T08:05:35","modified_gmt":"2025-11-10T02:35:35","slug":"indianmatchmaking-the-nonprofit-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/idronline.org\/kn-in\/indianmatchmaking-the-nonprofit-edition\/","title":{"rendered":"#IndianMatchmaking: The nonprofit edition"},"content":{"rendered":"<?xml encoding=\"utf-8\" ?><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sima aunty&rsquo;s Indian matchmaking skills are so superlative that she is now matchmaking nonprofits and social enterprises, with funders. (Not really, but what if?)&nbsp;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here, we imagine what a conversation with her would go like if you were the nonprofit or entrepreneur, and she is giving you advice about your prospective funding partner.<\/span><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">1. When your nonprofit programme fits <em>every single<\/em> criteria and strategic priority of the corporate donor, but after 26 months of meetings, calls, and assurances, it does not work out<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21687 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/1-5.jpg\" alt=\"ultimately my efforts are all meaningless-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><p><a class=\"sidebar-related-article\" href=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/website-admin\/tv-shows-with-a-nonprofit-twist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Related article: TV shows with a nonprofit twist<\/strong><\/a><\/p><div class=\"idron-article-in-content\" style=\"margin-bottom: 15px;\" id=\"idron-1130921887\"><a href=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/what-is-idr-answers\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"What is IDR Answers Page Banner\"><img src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1.png\" alt=\"What is IDR Answers Page Banner\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1.png 1250w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-300x60.png 300w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-1024x205.png 1024w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-150x30.png 150w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/What-is-IDR-Answers-Page-Banner-1-768x154.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" width=\"1250\" height=\"250\"   \/><\/a><\/div><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">2. The gems of wisdom she offers, after just informing you that in order to close the deal, you need to &lsquo;pivot&rsquo; your tribal health programme in rural Jharkhand to focus on child and maternity health in Mumbai instead<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21688 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/2-5.jpg\" alt=\"you have to be flexible-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">3. The advice she gives you, when you express concern that if the partnerships work out, you will need to fill out a different reporting format for every single funder she has connected you with; all nine of them<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21689 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/3-5.jpg\" alt=\"you have to adjust-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">4. When you ask whether this potential funding partner will support basic institutional expenses such as salaries<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21680 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/4-5.jpg\" alt=\"many of these things are not up to me-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">5. When you ask her if she would help an organisation working outside health\/education\/livelihoods get funding.<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21681 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/5-5.jpg\" alt=\"i don't take that case-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">6. Sima aunty: &ldquo;I know people who want to eradicate poverty, who want to make sure everyone has clean water and proper jobs&hellip;<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21682 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/6-4.jpg\" alt=\"god gave me the job-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">7. What Sima aunty was doing while screening your calls, and working hard to get a potential funder to give you seed money <em>(Namu My&#333;h&#333; Renge Ky&#333;oooooo)<\/em><\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21683 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/7-4.jpg\" alt=\"sima aunty chanting-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">8. When a potential funding partner is pointing out a few gaps in your programme to Sima aunty, and she feels like she needs to add value to the conversation<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21684 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/8-5.jpg\" alt=\"change talking pattern-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><p><a class=\"sidebar-related-article\" href=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/website-admin\/preparing-for-the-annual-donor-meeting\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>Related article: Preparing for the annual donor meeting<\/strong><\/a><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">9. When Sima aunty gets two family offices to agree to co-fund an awareness drive for men&rsquo;s rights activists<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21685 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/9-4.jpg\" alt=\"happiest moment-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p><div class=\"second-level-subheading\">10. What she tells you after making you fill out a 25-page grant proposal, rework your theory of change, pivot your programme, reduce your salary costs, and agree to working in three new geographical locations<\/div><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-21686 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/10-5.jpg\" alt=\"rest is up to destiny-indian matchmaking\" width=\"716\" height=\"475\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"idron-troublemakers-placement\" style=\"margin-bottom: 20px;\" id=\"idron-3485223339\"><a href=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/donate\/\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"donate banner\"><img src=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1.jpg\" alt=\"donate banner\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1.jpg 1250w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-300x60.jpg 300w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-1024x205.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-150x30.jpg 150w, https:\/\/idronline.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Donate-banner-1-768x154.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1250px) 100vw, 1250px\" width=\"1250\" height=\"250\"   \/><\/a><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sima aunty&rsquo;s Indian matchmaking skills are so superlative that she is now matchmaking nonprofits and social enterprises, with funders. 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